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I Am 31 Year Old Women Dating A 21 Yeard Guy!!!!

He may embrace hobbies he hasn’t tried in decades, such as riding a motorcycle. I have known the 29 year old for a couple years now but only developed feelings for each other 6 months ago and the 28 year old I have only a month ago but feel like I have known my whole life. I am very confused and sometimes wish to just close my eyes and both guys would disappear. I am ready to love or be loved again but I am also on attacking younger guys in their late 20s, I am currently torn between 2 wonderful guys 28 and 29 years old. Currently met a girl that just turned 20 and I just turned 24.

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This was my first engagement w/another . I like it because we do things that I have never done before and I LOVE It. Out of curiosity, did that relationship work? My reason asking is bc I am 26 and my boyfriend is 20, almost 21. I am in a relationship with a 28 year old man and I am….. Wellllll lets just say I’m more of a jaguar.

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If you liked this article, visit to read about topics that spark conversations around love, life, and more. When John and Lauren are 60, the creepiness rule allows them to date anyone older than themselves . However, society places more restrictive age limits of 71 and 75 respectively. The results were interesting but just because I want to date someone much younger than me doesn’t mean I would be okay with someone else doing the same.

I married her when I was 20 years old and she was 30 years old. Plus, the age gap between the two is very small. Both ages most likely share similar maturity, interests, and goals as well. They can engage in sexual intercourse as long as both parties consent without being forced, unconscious, mentally impaired, or drunk.

I still didn’t know whether the creepiness rules actually represented what society finds acceptable. So he doesn’t know who Cardi B is, and you don’t have the same points of nostalgia—that might not bug you at all, and that’s just great. But what if you start talking politics and trends, only to discover he’s completely immovable in his views? It certainly depends on the individual, but “he may be very set in his ways and can appear less open-minded than younger men,” Paulette warns.

I struggled with the age difference at first but he made me feel so loved and beautiful. The age difference had played a huge role in our constant break ups. He wants an older women for all the obvious reasons… were more mature than women his age, we’re set and know what we want. But he’s so insure and has to constantly be texting me. I can’t do this insecure shit anymore. He no longer gets along with my daughters because they don’t appreciate how he treats me… he’s so controlling.

We had discussed from the beginning that we had no future together. I didn’t want to hold him back from having children and his own family. And I didn’t want to waste anymore of my life for him to leave me when he decides he wants a family. But for now we enjoy being together. I’m pretty sure he saved me from myself.

It was awesome, fun, exhilarating and yes, taboo to have such a younger lover and it’s priceless to have such a great friend. There was plenty of sexual tension and then I learned he was a groomsman and he found out I was his best friend’s mom. Long story short, we had an AMAZING affair. He is still in my life, and I love him dearly. We are excellent friends — good, good friends — but I’m a realist. I had pondered, mulled, agonized and deliberated over whether to pursue it.

He approached me one morning before class while I was outside having a cigarette. He told me I was the most beautiful woman he’d ever seen in his life. I was shell shocked, disturbed but I was also flattered.

So more or less like a family friend. I had been abused by my ex and he had an ex that was too high maintenance. I prefered a guy 10 yeard older than me but since he is so mature, taking over his dad’s property business and he wanted to get married young, his age wasnt an issue. He was 21 when we dated and I was 26. He is now 26 and I’m 31 and have been married for two years. I knew him since I was 21 so I knew fairly well what he was like but disnt act up on it cos of his age.

I am now 48 and in a loving exclusive relationship with a 23yo. For those who would call me a cougar, I remind them that that denotes a predatory instinct, which couldn’t be further from my personality. In fact, this man pursued me, declared his love for me and faith in our future long before I agreed to take him seriously. By then, he was declaring his intentions to friends/family/strangers/anyone who would listen…and he still does. I want him to feel safe, loved and respected – not just useful for my libido or ego. I am 28 and dating a 22 year old guy.